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How Hypnotherapy Empowers You to Overcome People-Pleasing Behaviors

How Hypnotherapy Empowers You to Overcome People-Pleasing Behaviors

by | Sep 1, 2023 | Codependency, Hypnotherapy

How Hypnotherapy Training Empowers You to Overcome People-Pleasing Behaviors

Do you find yourself constantly bending over backward to meet others’ expectations, often to the detriment of your well-being? You’re not alone. The cycle of people-pleasing can be a draining, debilitating experience that hampers one’s personal and professional growth. But here’s the good news: hypnotherapy training can offer a transformative route to breaking free from this self-imposed prison.

The Vicious Circle of People-Pleasing

People-pleasing is not merely a habit; it’s a coping mechanism, a way to gain validation and avoid conflict. While the occasional gesture to make someone else happy is part and parcel of human relationships, consistent people-pleasing can lead to resentment, loss of identity, and chronic stress. In extreme cases, it can pave the way to anxiety disorders and depression. No wonder it’s a challenge many people want to overcome. That’s where hypnotherapy training comes into play.

Understanding Hypnotherapy Training

Hypnotherapy is not about swinging pocket watches and mind control; it’s a scientifically supported therapeutic technique that allows you to delve deep into your subconscious mind. During hypnotherapy training, you learn various tools and strategies to access and modify the mental scripts that dictate your behaviors. These scripts, often formed in childhood, create the pattern of people-pleasing that many find so hard to break.

Hypnotherapy Training and People-Pleasing: A Perfect Match

Hypnotherapy training focuses on reprogramming your subconscious beliefs, replacing limiting thoughts with empowering ones. For a people-pleaser, this means facing the fears that fuel their behavior—whether it’s a fear of rejection, conflict, or inadequacy. Under hypnosis, you’re more receptive to suggestions, making it an optimal time to introduce healthier thought patterns. You can rewrite your mental script from “I must make everyone happy, or I’m a failure,” to “It’s okay to prioritize my needs and set boundaries.”

Practical Steps in Hypnotherapy Training

During hypnotherapy training, you’ll undergo guided sessions that often follow a structured path:

Induction: Relaxing the mind and body to reach a state of heightened awareness.

Deepening: Further relaxing the mind to open the subconscious to positive suggestions.

Scripting: Introducing new thought patterns and challenging old beliefs.

Awakening: Slowly coming out of the hypnotic state, carrying the new, positive scripts into everyday life.

Empowerment Beyond the Session

What’s magical about hypnotherapy training is that it equips you with skills to face real-world scenarios. So when you find yourself on the verge of people-pleasing, you can mentally revisit the calming, empowering environment of the hypnotherapy session. You’ll find that saying “no” becomes less anxiety-inducing, that setting boundaries feels more like self-care than an act of rebellion.

Why Opt for Hypnotherapy Training

There are various tools and resources available for self-improvement, but hypnotherapy training offers a unique approach that addresses the root of the issue. By tackling the subconscious drivers behind people-pleasing, you’re not just putting a band-aid on a deep wound; you’re facilitating true healing and transformation. The ripple effect is astonishing—you’ll find the courage to be more authentic in all areas of your life.

People-pleasing is a complex issue, but it’s not insurmountable. Through hypnotherapy training, you can delve deep into your subconscious, rewrite your limiting scripts, and equip yourself with the emotional resilience to live a more authentic life. It’s an empowering journey of self-discovery that every people-pleaser should consider embarking upon. Because when you stop seeking validation from the world, you start finding it within yourself—where it has been all along.

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Empowering Self through Hypnotherapy: Stand Up, Set Boundaries, and Transform your Life

Empowering Self through Hypnotherapy: Stand Up, Set Boundaries, and Transform your Life

by | Jul 21, 2023 | Codependency, Hypnotherapy

Empowering Self through Hypnotherapy: Stand Up, Set Boundaries, and Transform your Life

In a world where people often cross boundaries, infringing upon the personal space of others, it becomes crucial to learn how to stand up for oneself. In this context, I want to share an approach that I’ve been practicing and teaching through my hypnotherapy training – setting healthy boundaries for personal transformation and growth.

Understanding the Power of Hypnotherapy

To begin with, let’s demystify hypnotherapy. Hypnotherapy is a therapeutic technique that uses the power of positive suggestion to bring about subconscious change in our thoughts, feelings, and behavior. It’s not about making you do things against your will but empowering you to make changes you desire.

Setting Healthy Boundaries: Why is it important?

Healthy boundaries are a form of self-respect and self-care. They signify your acceptance of self-worth and show others how you expect to be treated. Unfortunately, setting boundaries may not come naturally to everyone. Many of us, often due to societal conditioning, fear of rejection or confrontation, find it hard to say ‘No.’

However, by not setting clear boundaries, we may end up feeling resentful, stressed, and violated, thereby affecting our mental well-being. This is where hypnotherapy can prove invaluable.

Stand Up for Yourself: Hypnotherapy as a Tool

Hypnotherapy, when harnessed correctly, is a powerful tool for personal transformation. It helps us tap into the subconscious mind where our deeply held beliefs reside, replacing negative patterns with empowering ones. This can give us the confidence and strength to stand up for ourselves and our boundaries.

A simple way to understand this process is to see our minds as vast gardens. Over time, seeds of various thoughts and beliefs have been planted, some of which grow into nourishing plants, while others into destructive weeds. Hypnotherapy is the gardener’s tool, allowing us to weed out those harmful beliefs and plant healthy, vibrant seeds of self-worth, confidence, and assertiveness.

How to Apply Hypnotherapy to Boundary-Setting

I have seen firsthand in my hypnotherapy training how one can successfully establish healthy boundaries through hypnotherapy. Here’s a simple yet effective step-by-step guide to get started:

  1. Identify the issue: Begin by identifying where you feel your boundaries are being violated. This can be a particular relationship, a situation at work, or a personal habit you have been struggling with.

  2. Access your subconscious mind: Engage in a relaxed state where you can effectively communicate with your subconscious mind. This is where a trained hypnotherapist or a guided recording can be beneficial.

  3. Address the issue: Once in a state of hypnosis, address the issue identified. Encourage your subconscious mind to comprehend the situation and understand why it’s crucial to establish boundaries in this case.

  4. Introduce new beliefs: Create positive affirmations and beliefs about your self-worth and your right to establish boundaries. Introduce these new ideas to your subconscious mind.

  5. Visualize: Visualize scenarios where you successfully enforce your boundaries. Feel the empowerment and positivity associated with standing up for yourself.

  6. Reinforce new beliefs: Regularly reinforce these new beliefs through repeat sessions until they become a part of your natural thought process.

Tying it All Together: Hypnotherapy Training

Through my hypnotherapy training, I have empowered many individuals to successfully stand up for themselves and set healthy boundaries. Hypnotherapy is not a magic wand that instantly changes everything. It’s a process that takes time, commitment, and patience. But the results are worth the effort, leading to enhanced self-esteem, healthy relationships, and a fulfilling life.

Remember, you are deserving and worthy of respect and care. There’s no need to feel guilty or worried about enforcing your boundaries. They are your personal space, your garden. Let hypnotherapy be your tool, guiding you in cultivating a beautiful garden filled with self-respect, self-worth, and assertiveness.

In the end, your journey with hypnotherapy and setting boundaries is about making choices – choices that respect your integrity, honor your needs, and nurture your spirit. It’s about understanding that you have the right to stand up for yourself and assert your boundaries.

In my hypnotherapy training, I hope to inspire you to make those choices and experience a personal transformation. Let’s stand up, set boundaries, and transform our lives. After all, as Maya Angelou once said, “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”

Let’s choose to be our priority today. The journey to a better, healthier, and happier life begins with that choice.

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Conquering Love Addiction Through Hypnotherapy: A Pathway of Self-Discovery and Healing

Conquering Love Addiction Through Hypnotherapy: A Pathway of Self-Discovery and Healing

by | Jul 5, 2023 | Codependency, Hypnotherapy Training

Conquering Love Addiction Through Hypnotherapy: A Pathway of Self-Discovery and Healing

In the vast canvas of human emotions, love often takes center stage. It has inspired countless works of art and literature, given meaning to life, and bound people together in wonderful ways. However, like any strong force, love can have its destructive side when it spirals into addiction. In this post, we’ll explore love addiction and how hypnotherapy – an extraordinary tool we teach in our hypnotherapy training – can bring healing and transformation.

Love addiction, often misunderstood and misdiagnosed, is an intense fixation on another individual perceived to be the source of happiness, validation, and self-worth. This condition can lead to unhealthy patterns and toxic relationships, with devastating emotional and psychological effects. It’s a constant search for a love that fills the void within, a quest that frequently leads to a cycle of heartache and despair.

Enter hypnotherapy, a deeply transformational therapeutic tool that has shown remarkable results in treating a range of emotional and behavioral challenges, including love addiction. But what exactly is hypnotherapy, and how does it work?

Hypnotherapy is a type of therapy that uses hypnosis to access the subconscious mind – the storehouse of our deep-seated beliefs, memories, and feelings. By communicating with this part of our mind, we can identify and reshape negative patterns, and cultivate healthier ways of thinking and behaving. Hypnotherapy isn’t about mind control or manipulation, but about harnessing the power of the mind to effect positive change.

In our hypnotherapy training, we emphasize the importance of this understanding and respect for the client’s autonomy. The role of a hypnotherapist is that of a guide, helping clients navigate their subconscious and make meaningful changes in their lives.

So, how can hypnotherapy help with love addiction?

Firstly, hypnotherapy can identify the root cause of the addiction. Often, love addiction stems from a deep sense of insecurity or past traumatic experiences. By accessing the subconscious mind, hypnotherapy can bring these underlying issues to light, allowing the client to understand and confront them.

Secondly, through hypnotherapy, individuals can rewrite the narrative. Old, damaging beliefs such as “I am not worthy of love unless someone else validates me” can be replaced with healthier ones like “I am complete and deserving of love in myself”. This shift in mindset is a critical step towards breaking free from love addiction.

Lastly, hypnotherapy aids in building healthier coping mechanisms and relationship patterns. It equips individuals with tools to manage their emotions effectively, establish boundaries, and build more fulfilling, balanced relationships.

Our hypnotherapy training course offers in-depth knowledge and practical skills to effectively treat love addiction and other emotional issues. It’s more than just a course – it’s a journey into understanding the human mind and its immense capacity for change.

Becoming a hypnotherapist is a fulfilling path. It gives you the opportunity to touch lives, foster healing, and spark transformation. Imagine being able to help someone break free from the shackles of love addiction, guiding them towards a healthier relationship with love, and most importantly, with themselves.

To conclude, love addiction is a serious issue that requires understanding, compassion, and effective therapeutic tools. Hypnotherapy, when administered by a trained professional, can pave the way to recovery and healthier emotional patterns. In our hypnotherapy training, we equip aspiring hypnotherapists with the knowledge and skills necessary to make a significant difference in people’s lives.

Whether you’re seeking to broaden your therapeutic skills or are drawn to the fascinating field of hypnotherapy, our training will provide a foundation of knowledge, practical experience, and an insight into the profound power of the human mind.

In an era where emotional and mental health issues are more prevalent than ever, there’s a growing need for effective, empathetic treatment options. As a hypnotherapist, you can be on the front lines of this effort, providing the necessary support and guidance that can make a significant difference in people’s lives.

Remember, healing love addiction – or any form of addiction – is not about finding the ‘perfect’ relationship outside of ourselves, but rather about fostering a loving, healthy relationship within. As a hypnotherapist, you have the privilege and opportunity to guide individuals on this journey of self-discovery and healing.

Our hypnotherapy training is more than a learning experience – it’s an invitation to join a community dedicated to transforming lives and promoting emotional well-being. If you feel a calling towards this path, we welcome you with open arms.

In the words of Carl Jung, “Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” Hypnotherapy is a powerful tool that allows individuals to awake – to their self-worth, to healthier patterns of love, and to a life unshackled by love addiction. Join us, and let’s make a difference, one mind at a time.

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Breaking The Chains of Codependency Through Hypnotherapy Training

Breaking The Chains of Codependency Through Hypnotherapy Training

by | Jul 4, 2023 | Codependency, Hypnotherapy Training

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you feel more like a caregiver than a partner? Or perhaps you feel overwhelmed by your partner’s emotions and problems to the point where it impacts your own mental well-being? If so, you might be caught in the stranglehold of codependency, a relationship pattern that can be incredibly destructive. As a trained hypnotherapist, I have found that this powerful tool can help break the chains of codependency, creating healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Understanding Codependency

Codependency is a term often used to describe a relationship where one or both individuals are excessively reliant on each other for validation and emotional fulfillment. This dependency can become so consuming that individuals lose sight of their own needs and identity, causing significant distress and dissatisfaction.

In codependent relationships, one person often assumes the role of the caregiver, placing the other person’s needs above their own. They believe their self-worth is defined by their ability to ‘fix’ their partner or make them happy. The partner, on the other hand, often struggles with addiction, mental health issues, or other problems and becomes reliant on the caregiver for emotional support. This unhealthy dynamic can result in a cycle of resentment, guilt, and frustration, ultimately leading to the breakdown of the relationship.

Codependency and Relationship Destruction

In a codependent relationship, the balance of give-and-take is often skewed. One person is typically giving too much, while the other takes advantage. The giver’s self-esteem is frequently bound to the taker’s approval, leading to feelings of low self-worth and inadequacy when they fail to ‘fix’ their partner’s issues.

Moreover, in such relationships, personal boundaries are often blurred or non-existent. The codependent individual may sacrifice their own wants, needs, and aspirations, resulting in a loss of self-identity. This, coupled with an extreme fear of rejection or abandonment, can cause intense anxiety and emotional distress.

Over time, this destructive pattern can erode the relationship foundation, causing a spiral of negative emotions and dysfunctional behaviors. The caregiver may feel used, unappreciated, and trapped, while the dependent individual may feel smothered and incapable of dealing with their own issues independently.

Hypnotherapy as a Path to Healing

This is where hypnotherapy comes in. Hypnotherapy is a powerful therapeutic tool that utilizes the power of suggestion to facilitate change in thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It harnesses the brain’s natural plasticity, allowing us to reframe our understanding of ourselves and our relationships.

Through hypnotherapy, one can begin to break the chains of codependency. For example, a hypnotherapist might help a codependent individual realize their inherent worth is not tied to the wellbeing of their partner. They can then start to foster self-love and confidence, which in turn encourages healthier relationship dynamics.

Furthermore, hypnotherapy can be used to reinforce personal boundaries. Understanding and asserting boundaries is a crucial step in overcoming codependency. During hypnotherapy sessions, one can explore and address past experiences that may have contributed to boundary issues and learn new strategies to express and enforce these boundaries effectively.

Another powerful application of hypnotherapy is in addressing fears of rejection and abandonment. Hypnotherapy can help uncover deep-seated fears and provide tools to manage these anxieties, thereby reducing their hold on one’s life.

Nurturing Healthy Relationships

Breaking free from codependency doesn’t mean withdrawing from relationships; rather, it means nurturing healthier connections where both individuals have a sense of individual identity and personal worth, independent of each other. Hypnotherapy aids in this process, fostering self-awareness, self-esteem, and the confidence to establish and maintain healthy boundaries.

In a post-codependency scenario, one can learn to offer and accept help in a relationship without it becoming a crutch for validation or an escape from personal issues. The goal is to cultivate interdependence – a state where both partners maintain their individuality while working together to build a fulfilling and mutually beneficial relationship.

To those who find themselves trapped in codependent relationships, remember this: You are enough, just as you are. Your worth is inherent and does not depend on your ability to ‘fix’ someone else. Don’t be afraid to seek help and explore therapeutic options like hypnotherapy to break free from codependency. It may be a challenging journey, but rest assured, the destination – a life of healthier, happier relationships – is absolutely worth it.

Hypnotherapy is more than just a remedy; it’s a life-changing tool that enables individuals to explore their subconscious mind, understand their inner workings, and foster meaningful change. As we apply hypnotherapy to the realm of relationships, we can break free from the destructive chains of codependency and pave the way towards healthier, more fulfilling connections.

In conclusion, let us empower ourselves and those around us to acknowledge and address codependency when we see it. Through awareness, education, and tools like hypnotherapy, we can transform our relationships and consequently, our lives.

In the words of Rollo May, “The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.” So, let’s muster the courage to break the cycle of codependency and conform no longer to unhealthy relationship patterns.

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Mastering Attachment and Codependency through Hypnotherapy: A Revolutionary Approach

Mastering Attachment and Codependency through Hypnotherapy: A Revolutionary Approach

by | Jun 22, 2023 | Attachment Styles, Codependency, Hypnotherapy

Mastering Attachment and Codependency through Hypnotherapy: A Revolutionary Approach

Attachment and codependency are vital aspects of the human experience. Whether between parents and children, romantic partners, or within platonic relationships, these constructs influence our behaviors and shape our emotional well-being. Understanding their implications can catalyze a radical transformation in personal growth and relationship dynamics. One therapeutic approach that promises intriguing possibilities in this realm is hypnotherapy. As a hypnotherapist in training, I’d like to shed some light on this fascinating intersection.

Before delving into the core topic, it’s crucial to understand attachment and codependency. Attachment theory, pioneered by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, posits that our attachment styles formed during early childhood significantly influence our interactions and relationships throughout life. On the other hand, codependency, first recognized within the context of addiction studies, describes a relationship pattern where one person relies excessively on another for emotional or psychological support.

Hypnotherapy, a type of psychotherapy that employs hypnosis as a therapeutic tool, offers a unique pathway to navigate and reshape these ingrained patterns. By accessing the subconscious mind and fostering a deep state of relaxation, hypnotherapy allows individuals to gain insight into their behaviors, emotions, and beliefs.

From Unconscious Patterns to Conscious Choices

Hypnotherapy is a tool that can open doors to our subconscious mind, the powerhouse driving our behaviors, emotions, and memories. During a hypnotherapy session, the client enters a state of heightened focus and receptivity. In this state, they can access their deep-seated beliefs, fears, and attachment styles, leading to profound insights and potential shifts in behavior.

Attachment patterns and codependency often take root in early childhood experiences, residing in the subconscious mind and influencing us without our conscious awareness. The beauty of hypnotherapy is its ability to reach these underlying constructs, allowing us to understand and transform them. For example, someone with an anxious attachment style, who constantly fears abandonment, can explore the origins of this fear under hypnosis and work towards building a secure attachment style.

Hypnotherapy for Codependency: Empowering Self-Sufficiency

Codependency manifests in a constant need for approval and an excessive reliance on others. This dynamic often leaves individuals feeling drained and unfulfilled. Traditional therapeutic approaches to codependency focus on building boundaries and self-esteem. While undoubtedly effective, these methods can take time, and progress might be slow.

Hypnotherapy can complement these strategies by accelerating the process of change. By accessing the subconscious mind, hypnotherapy can address the root causes of codependency, thereby aiding in the construction of healthier relationship patterns. A powerful technique used in hypnotherapy is suggestion therapy, where positive and empowering suggestions are introduced to the subconscious mind. This can help codependent individuals to reframe their self-perceptions, foster self-reliance, and redefine their interpersonal relationships.

Training in Hypnotherapy: Bridging the Gap

My training in hypnotherapy has profoundly reshaped my understanding of attachment and codependency. Recognizing the power of the subconscious mind, the role of early experiences in shaping adult behaviors, and the potential for transformation has been nothing short of an awakening.

During my training, I learned several techniques that are particularly effective in addressing attachment and codependency issues. These include regression therapy, suggestion therapy, and parts therapy. In regression therapy, the client is guided back to earlier life experiences to understand and resolve their current issues. Parts therapy allows the client to identify and communicate with different parts of their psyche, fostering internal harmony and self-understanding.

Application of Hypnotherapy in Real Life

One of the most rewarding aspects of my training has been the application of these techniques in real-life scenarios. I’ve had the privilege of witnessing individuals gain insight into their patterns of attachment and codependency, thereby prompting shifts in their relational dynamics and overall emotional well-being.

For example, one client, suffering from severe anxiety due to an insecure attachment style, was able to trace the root of her fears to a traumatic childhood event. By revisiting this memory in a controlled environment and reframing it under hypnosis, she was able to gain a fresh perspective. This cognitive shift allowed her to view her relationships from a healthier standpoint, which decreased her anxiety significantly.

Another client, entrapped in a cycle of codependency, had been grappling with issues of low self-esteem and boundary setting. Using suggestion therapy, we worked on replacing his self-doubt with affirmations of self-worth and autonomy. Over several sessions, he reported feeling more assertive and less emotionally reliant on his partner.

The Power of the Subconscious

Hypnotherapy is not a magic wand that instantly eliminates the complexities of human relationships. However, it is a powerful tool that enables individuals to understand and address the root causes of their behavioral patterns. By accessing the subconscious mind, hypnotherapy offers a profound opportunity for self-exploration and transformation.

Attachment and codependency, often rooted in our early experiences, significantly influence our relationships. Hypnotherapy can help unravel these ingrained patterns, empowering individuals to lead more balanced and fulfilling lives.

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Past Life Regression Therapy and Codependency: Break Free From the Chains of Time and Live Your Best Life Now

Past Life Regression Therapy and Codependency: Break Free From the Chains of Time and Live Your Best Life Now

by | Nov 23, 2021 | Codependency, Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, Karma, Past Life Regression Training, Reincarnation, Relationships

Past Life Regression Therapy and Codependency

Codependency runs deep in unhealthy relationships and has strong, entangled roots. It runs so deep that often the source of codependency lies in a past life. If you’re curious about the connection between Past Life Regression Therapy and Codependency you can read all about it below.

What is Codependency?

Codependency has many definitions. The most common, agreed-upon definition in the mental health field is, “Codependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down from one generation to another. It is an emotional and behavioral condition that affects an individual’s ability to have a healthy, mutually satisfying relationship. It is also known as “relationship addiction” because people with codependency often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided, emotionally destructive and/or abusive. The disorder was first identified about ten years ago as the result of years of studying interpersonal relationships in families of alcoholics. Co-dependent behavior is learned by watching and imitating other family members who display this type of behavior.”

Another definition of codependency that I like to teach is abandoning yourself in order to make the relationship work.

Have you ever had to put yourself or your needs or your goals and dreams aside to make the relationship work? If so, you may be in a codependent relationship.

Let’s look at some of the different codependent roles people enact in their relationships.

The People Pleaser

The People Pleaser is someone who avoids conflict at all costs and will agree with others’ opinions even if they really don’t agree. Often their private self and public self are polar opposites. People Pleasers tend to keep quiet to avoid arguments. There is a constant worry about others’ opinions of them. People Pleasers will often deny their own needs, wants, and opinions in order to make the relationship work.

The Rescuer

The rescuer personality is driven to help others. When someone has the need for help, the rescuer is there, just like a superhero, ready to save the day. … Rescuers are driven by a need to be needed. When they can help other people, they feel like they are helping themselves.

The Enabler

The term “enabler” generally describes someone whose behavior allows a loved one to continue self-destructive patterns of behavior. Enabling usually refers to patterns that appear in the context of drug or alcohol misuse and addiction. Often the enabler will help the addicted person by lying about, ignoring, or passively supporting the loved one’s substance abuse.

People Affected by Codependency Often…

  • Have difficulty making decisions.
  • Judge what they think, say, or do harshly, as never good enough.
  • Are embarrassed to receive recognition, praise, or gifts.
  • Value others’ approval of their thinking, feelings, and behavior over their own.
  • Do not perceive themselves as lovable or worthwhile persons.
  • Seek recognition and praise to overcome feeling less than.
  • Have difficulty admitting a mistake.
  • Need to appear to be right in the eyes of others and may even lie to look good.
  • Are unable to identify or ask for what they need and want.
  • Perceive themselves as superior to others.
  • Look to others to provide their sense of safety.
  • Have difficulty getting started, meeting deadlines, and completing projects.
  • Have trouble setting healthy priorities and boundaries.
 

Break Free From the Chains of Codependency with Past Life Regression Therapy

In clinical hypnotherapy, we use age regression to go back to the source of our codependent behaviors to address the unhealthy relationship dynamics that are present in the client’s current life. It’s in the age regression where we discover the old conclusion the client made about themselves as well as the old decision and behavior they chose – the codependent behavior.

But what if the source of codependency and people-pleasing goes way, way back? Like all the back to a Past Life?

Codependency as Karmic Issues

What if our codependent behaviors aren’t just an issue from this life? What if the source of our codependent behaviors has deep roots in the past? Are we bringing these behaviors with us from lifetime to lifetime as lessons to learn around healthy boundaries and agreements to break with others? It’s very possible that you are dealing with karmic issues.

Karmic Issues are unresolved issues from our past lives and typically come in the form of lessons, or agreements and contracts with others. Have you ever wondered who your partner was in a past life? Perhaps your parent or child or uncle? These relationship issues could be Karmic Issues when looked at from the perspective of Spiritual Reality.

The best way to heal Karmic Issues is with Past Life Regression therapy. Nothing helps your client see their role and own their responsibility and behavior and consequences faster than Past Life Regression therapy.

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